Book Review: “Pure Desire” by Ted Roberts

Ted Roberts’ Pure Desire is a powerful and transformative book that speaks to one of the most pressing and often unspoken struggles in modern life—sexual addiction and the deep wounds it leaves in individuals, marriages, and families. Written with the heart of a pastor, the wisdom of a counselor, and the vulnerability of someone who has walked this journey himself, Roberts offers readers a practical yet profoundly spiritual roadmap to healing and restoration.

Why You Should Read This Book

1. It Addresses the Heart of the Issue:

Unlike many books that simply focus on surface-level behavioral changes, Pure Desire dives deep into the root causes of sexual addiction. Roberts explores how shame, trauma, and unmet emotional needs create a cycle of pain and brokenness. He challenges readers to confront these underlying wounds with honesty, offering a path toward true and lasting freedom.

2. A Hopeful and Redemptive Message:

For those who feel trapped in cycles of guilt, failure, and secrecy, Pure Desire is a lifeline. Roberts doesn’t just diagnose the problem—he offers hope. The book emphasizes God’s grace and power to heal even the most broken parts of our lives, reminding readers that no one is too far gone for redemption.

3. Practical Tools for Change:

One of the book’s greatest strengths is its practicality. Roberts provides actionable steps for breaking free from addiction, including strategies for accountability, renewing the mind, and building healthier relationships. Whether you are seeking healing for yourself or supporting someone else on this journey, the book equips you with tools to make real progress.

4. Biblical Wisdom Combined with Real-Life Stories:

Roberts roots his advice in Scripture, presenting a clear, God-centered approach to overcoming addiction. At the same time, he includes compelling personal stories from men and women who have experienced transformation through the principles he outlines. These stories add depth and authenticity, reminding readers that healing is not only possible but achievable.

5. A Resource for Marriages:

Pure Desire isn’t just for those battling addiction; it’s also a vital resource for spouses seeking to understand and navigate the impact of sexual brokenness on their marriage. Roberts provides compassionate guidance for couples, offering tools for rebuilding trust, intimacy, and communication.

Who Should Read This Book?

• Those Struggling with Sexual Addiction: If you feel trapped in unhealthy habits or desires, this book offers both spiritual encouragement and practical tools to break free.

• Spouses and Loved Ones: If someone you care about is battling addiction, Pure Desire provides insight into their struggles and guidance on how to support them without enabling harmful behavior.

• Church Leaders and Counselors: For those ministering to others, this book is an essential resource for understanding the complexity of sexual addiction and how to walk with people toward healing.

Conclusion

Ted Roberts’ Pure Desire is more than just a book—it’s a guide to freedom, hope, and restoration. With its combination of biblical wisdom, practical advice, and compassionate storytelling, it speaks directly to the hearts of those struggling with addiction and those walking alongside them. If you are ready to confront the pain, break free from destructive patterns, and experience the fullness of God’s healing, Pure Desire is a must-read.

Published by Ryan Stratton

Ryan Stratton is a pastor in the Texas Annual Conference of the United Methodist Church. He serves with his wife, Amanda, along with their children. He writes about life, faith, and leadership through his blog.

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